Welcome to the world of a hot mess
When you genuinely enjoy another human being, you don’t criticize them for being that they really are. You don’t make them feel guilty for having previous injuries that they are still handling.
When they need your help to function out their depend on concerns, you do not leave them alone. You support them. You approve the truth that they are not perfect. You encourage them to never surrender. And you help them understand that they are more powerful than they imagine.