You don’t require someone who forces you to do the things they desire you to do. Someone that intends to change you. A person who does not allow you to be on your own. Somebody who doesn’t accept you for that you actually are.
What you need is someone who motivates you. Someone that is able to see all your qualities and also toughness. Somebody who sees what your objectives as well as dreams are and also who urges you to pursue them despite just how high or unrealistic they appear to everyone else.