Yesterday I was associating one of my male close friends and naturally, we touched on the subject of love as well as connections. As well as, he explained that every lady wants a rich guy. Obviously, as a lady, I got pissed off, but I kindly asked him to elaborate and also tell me why he assumes that.
And right here is how he took place clarifying what he implied by that:
” When you are dating a lady, at the starting phases, you are on your ideal habits. You are courting her, bringing her blossoms, taking her out on wonderful dates, and so forth. And also she is having a fantastic time due to the fact that she discovers you so enchanting, conscientious, intriguing, and also funny. You are making her feeling great and also looked after. As well as with the passionate kisses, you share … she is instantly feeling even more connected to you and also preferable as a female.
Later on, you locate yourself desiring to invest more time at house considering that you can not understand why you have to spend money at a bar and see all the very same faces as well as pay attention to the exact same songs once more and also once again. And also yet, when the boys ask you out, you quickly forget about your money (problems) and also you feel invigorated and happy to head out as well as see the same people and also pay attention to the same music. That’s the paradox …
Women want to remain in a fun and exciting relationship. They wish to loosen up after a hard day at the workplace and destress by getting a massage therapy or a glass of wine. Or go with a great getaway every so often. Of course, she can still be independent, and also she should be. Nevertheless, her independence does not mean that she needs to only go out with her sweethearts or always pay the bill when you 2 go out.
Women intend to live a comfy life, therefore it’s just natural for them to like dating guys with cash because together they can live a much better life. Do not obtain me incorrect. This doesn’t make a female materialistic. And while it’s real that money can’t purchase you happiness, it is additionally true that most of females intend to travel and also have amazing experiences, and also we all understand that those experiences set you back cash.
Do not obtain me incorrect, there is still appeal in simply lying there in the house, viewing Netflix and also cooling. It’s even more attractive if during the movie she drops off to sleep in your arms with her directly your upper body. Cuddling is a soothing satisfaction that is the backbone of any type of healthy connection.
Yet a female additionally needs to experience selection. Plus, let’s all agree that ladies value ambitious males who have their shit together. They desire guys who succeed, confident and also driven. They want men that are positive, responsible, and also who don’t live anything to chance. That’s what’s alluring as well as sexy to women.
Once again, allow’s be clear about something. A good female does not anticipate you to be rich. That’s not the reason why she is with you. Naturally, a female who loves you will be with you throughout both good and also bad times. You need to be ambitious as well as follow your enthusiasm. You ought to have the ability to attend to your kids, great dinners and also charming weekend getaways.
If a woman prefers to be with a guy with cash, that doesn’t automatically make her a gold digger. She is just intending to live an attractive life with you.”
Ladies, gentlemen … Do you concur with this? I am waiting to hear your ideas on this subject.